What really makes a loving home for an adopted child?

As National Adoption Week begins, we’re reflecting on what truly makes a house a home for an adopted child.

This year’s theme for National Adoption Week reminds us that adoption doesn’t require a "perfect home" - just a loving one. But what does that really mean?

We've asked our adoption team to share their thoughts, they have supported many families through their adoption journeys, and here’s what they had to say: 

“A loving home is one where parents really see and listen to the child - as an individual. It’s about creating safety and structure, so the child can begin to feel good about who they are. Love isn't one-size-fits-all, especially for children who’ve had a difficult start in life. It’s about finding the child’s unique ‘language of love’ - which may be different from what we expect.” 

Another team member added: 

“Children feel loved and special when their uniqueness is accepted, valued and celebrated.” 

That’s the heart of it. A loving home isn't measured in neat rows of matching towels or freshly painted walls. It’s built on warmth, acceptance, and the belief that every child deserves to be known, heard and cherished. 

This week, we’ll be sharing more from our adoption team - real insights from those who walk beside families every day. Because ultimately, it’s love, not perfection, that matters most. 

Hear from a father who adopted their two children with the help of Diagrama Adoption:

“The last year and a half has been a complete whirlwind. Nothing can prepare you for how much your life will change. But in really delightful ways.”

Right now, 2910 children are waiting for a loving home like yours*. You can take the next step in your journey with Diagrama Adoption by downloading a pack or joining our next free online information session on Wednesday 12th November 2025 to find out everything you need to know about adopting a child in Kent, Sussex and Surrey.